Midlife is built on such shifting sands, isn’t it? Full of surprises and calls to reassess old habits. Looking at your growing girth in the mirror is a case in point. It is unsettling, yet viewed through a different lens, you can see your changing body chemistry as a wake-up call for you [...]

It’s so exciting that protecting environmental quality is at last on the national agenda. Finally, a shift from the tired either/or arguments of the past, that going green is bad for business. Or that we have to pick our devil: oil, coal or nuclear. There are so many rational alternatives available, depending on the resources [...]

When I began to understand the reality of caring for my mother, who has an Alzheimer’s dementia, I was, like everyone else, unsure and filled with questions about ‘how’ to ‘be with’ her. I was very uncomfortable when she endlessly repeated stories, or mixed up the characters in them. And when the memory of [...]

Today I sing the praises of Oprah! Not because I always agree with her, but because she is unafraid to raise provocative issues that start a national conversation, causing people that otherwise might not, to pay attention, and to come out of the woodwork to give them a much-needed airing. A case in [...]

Read today’s San Francisco Chronicle to discover whether a male midlife crisis is more than a state of mind, or linked to andropause, herbie rides again divx download hormonal changes occurring in midlife men that is the equivalent of perimenopause and menopause in women.
According to psychotherapist and male midlife expert Jed Diamond (pictured), author [...]

Here’s an authentic and real time voice of a valiant midlife – in- process. Recently, Jim Selman posted on his blog, Serene Ambition – isn’t that a great name? – about his upcoming ‘inventure’ – his inner adventure – trip to Africa. He says he’s always wanted to go to Africa, but for one reason [...]

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“Thoroughly unprepared, we take the step into the afternoon of life. Worse still, we take this step with the false presupposition that our truths and our ideals will serve us as hitherto. But we cannot live the afternoon of life according to the program of life’s morning, for what was great in [...]